Wednesday, January 14, 2009

Starting A Life In The Middle of a Life




Life is an exciting existence of a human being on Earth. From childhood to adolescence life is a routine schedule. There is a pattern being followed or a rule set by the older people like our parents. When our parents are gone to work for our future, they entrust us to the people we call teachers. These teachers guide us and nurture our knowledge of the world to come in the future. Our response to their teaching depends on our behavior and willingness to grow. After school, parents play a great role for us to value what we have learned the whole day when they are busy.


As our existence goes on, we pass through different stages of education. Our education usually starts with kindergarten, primary/elementary, middle school (for other countries) high school and college/university. Through these years we are molded, trained and guided of who we want to become in the future. There are bright future for good students and there are adventurous future for risky students. Basically we design our life. It is us who makes it.
As we grow older and graduate from school we venture in different kinds of life or way of living। This stage is memorable to most of us because this stage after graduation is the period where we search for jobs and start planning to be stable in life. People get married and begin the life they have prepared for so many years. In this stage we make mistakes but we do our best to solve the mistakes maturely though some are not successful in doing so.


In my opinion there is no certain age for a person to call its life already in the middle. You will feel it you are there because partly you have accomplished what you have ever wanted and still looking for more but still clueless of reality. It is like you know that you have prepared something for the place you want to go but you don't know where. This is the middle life.


The middle life for singles is the life where their career is soaring so high but their love life is zero। A time where everything is not balanced even how hard you try to organize it. Its like you are lost in the wilderness of nowhere. There are people who know how to get out of this place by finding love from their families. Some are stuck in the comfort of their friends. Most are married to their work.


It's really difficult to say how to get out of these emptiness. Its a fact that all of us pass a middle life where most of life us are comforted by love ones especially our families. If you have one, you are in good condition. If you've got friends, you're still lucky because in friendship there is love. But if none, it's not too late yet to look for one.



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